Friday 14 June 2019

NOTE TO SELF 💕

Sometimes, you are all that you need. No one or nothing else can make you see what you can to your own selves. You need to remind yourself of certain things, maybe a pep talk?  So, here's a note to your
                    
                        Future Self

It is important to know who you are, and what you stand for. This life that you have, is for you to live. You are to determine what to do with it and how, because you're the master of your fate. You're the one sailing the ship! There is no one who can tell you who you are, and who you should be, because you have to decide for yourself. Afterall, it's your journey to walk. Your people can only be your strength or walk along you, but not for you. And while you're on the journey, make your own choices; choose your own directions and take your steps when you feel you're ready and not when the world says you should.
    Be a different you, than you already are but not the one you see everyone else growing into. Mold yourself to be better, than who you were yesterday but not in the same mold every else uses to grow. And never let the changes to be about someone else, be a better you for yourself. You don't necessarily have to be better than someone or anyone. And if life gets difficult, (as it will be) allow yourself to pass all the thoughts, and not crumble upon them. Remind yourself that you've been here before and you can walk out of it but there's no rush as to when, you thrive at your own pace. 
Take chances, take risks and everything else that you need, to see the goals you have today but in a far better way.

Remember, this is your world; shape it before someone else does!

Wednesday 12 June 2019

WALK AWAY!

Sometimes, you have to walk away. Not because that's the only choice you have but because you deserve another path. You have to sit for a while, and look around you; at the things you're giving your everything into and realize that even though you could stay a little longer, and give the last of everything you have just to make it up to their stay, you could also make the bold choice to take whatever you've by the end to a space that truly embraces you, for being you.
 It might be the hardest decision to make, but who said life's gonna come easy? So you have to make it anyway, even it leads you to a path unknown. Because there are times in life when the whole of you, deserves walking away from the space you're in right now. 
The world may try, to hold you and root you where are you and make their opinions of you for trying to walk away, as that is far easier than anything else. But don't be afraid, your true people will find you right where you have made your choices to be.

So, just walk away and lay down your needs to understand why  things happen the way they do and when is it your time to walk away from the things that demands a downhearted you! 

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