HOPE!

I hope!

This is your life. You get to choose who you want to be, and what you want to learn. But I hope you learn how to be proud of the person you're becoming; and of where you are at this moment or what you've achieved so far- big or small. I hope you find the courage to chase what sets your soul on fire, and be happy on your own terms even if it isn't what others might approve of. 

I hope you learn to love yourself just the way you hope others did, and I hope, that love brings out the best in you and in whatever you do. I hope you find moments that make you feel alive, and teach you to truly live life. I hope you find people who sees the best version of you with all your flaws ahead and still decides to stick by. I hope you learn not to hold back and to let go of the things that aren't meant to. And I hope you learn to forgive yourself for what you did when you had to. 

But most of all, I hope you find your true self out there amidst the chaos of the world. There's a lot to feel out there, and I hope you feel it all. Because there's absolutely nothing more beautiful than embracing the journey you're on. It's a different feeling altogether!

#LIFELESSONS'

I'm learning. I'm slowly learning what it means to be human, what it means to be growing.
 In life, you can't skip chapters because it doesn't work that way. You have to read and go through every line, meet every character and see what the next chapter brings in for you because that's how you grow. It can be uncomfortable, messy and full of emotions you weren't expecting to feel any sooner but you have to let it pass. Because every experience will eventually lead you to where you are supposed to be. So the next time you feel confused or lost on your way; don't be so hard on yourself because you don't necessarily have to have an answer to every situation or feeling, just trust yourself that you will figure it all out and that everything will work out exactly the way it's supposed to be. So, just live through everything that ever comes your way; allow yourself to grow through it. Curate every aspect of your journey as much as you can, because one day you will realize- happiness was always about embracing the person you were becoming throughout the journey; and learning how to live with yourself above all. And at the end, you will see that you're still learning as there's always room for you to grow. Because life, would be so boring if you'd done it all, already right? 

HAVE A START!

Be it today or tomorrow , you have got to start. 

It's time to start working on that life you've always dreamed of. Nothing comes handy, you have got to make a move; be it today or tomorrow. So stop saying you will do it "some day", and just start doing it. Don't settle for the "one day" thing, because that might never happen. Just take a step ahead from wherever you are at right now, and you will get your directions on the way. At some point of time, you have to take a step and make a move anyway; so why not today? 

Today's a good day to start. Even if it means you taking baby steps, just do it. Because you have got to make the things you plan inside your head happen. And that's how you have to do it. A step ahead is always a step closer to what you wish to be. So, just put the fear of failure aside, because  if you don't start you will never know how far you can actually go. Remember, the feeling of regret is more terrifying  than the fear of failure.  

-have a start, today! 

FAll FOR FRIENDSHIP'S

"Falling in love is fine, but have you ever fallen in friendship" ?

I just came across these words and it struck me for real, like how love has always been so overrated and friendships may have been left underrated or atleast most of the times. I mean, yeah falling in love is like great; it's a totally different feeling. Your heart, your mind and everything else just get's into a different zone and even you start having those butterflies in your stomach or atleast that's what they say! I assume most of you must have fallen in love atleast once at some point of your life right? Or perhaps, for some of you maybe twice, thrice? 
But have you ever fallen in friendships? Or like just ever put a thought on that? Well that's the real thing, it's actually the most beautiful thing to fall for. But people are so fascinated with the idea of falling in love and the feels coming ahead of it, that they usually leave friendships unnoticed. I mean how truly beautiful and blessed friendships are, like you just know this other person is your best friend, your favourite human being,  someone who would be there through thick and thin; someone that you can always be sure of. 

Do you remember the first time you met each other; your paths crossed ? Or the time you were waiting for the end of the day to tell them just how your day was? Because you know, no matter how bad the day was you will feel better the moment they reach out to you. Remember how you waited for them to call? And they did. How they just instantly gets everything that's been running in your mind? Like from sharing the first awkward secrets, to the comfortable silences and the never ending conversations; from annoying each other to finding solace in each others words, from calling up and laughing together to calling up just to cry your heart out. They are the one's who accepts you for who you are, and helps you grow in true sense. These are people who will build the bridges for you to reach to the other side, who will come to your aid when you have a flat tire or just a stomach upset, who will help themselves in your kitchen without your permission as if it's like their home. But most of us are so obsessed with love, that we often let our friends down unknowingly. So, if you have a person who fits in these feels and who is a synonym for constant, family and loyalty then just thank them for just being there and making your life better in ways they will never know or just hug them tight enough the next time you meet. 
Also, "stop moulding your idea of romance into a soulmate because a friend can be a soulmate too. Maybe, a better one"

JUDGE- MENTS?

JUDGEMENTS, the easy and convenient way out for people. You don't like someone? You have something against someone? Or maybe you're just jobless? Then you have something you can do, that too very effortlessly. You know what it is right? Cm'on, the easiest thing people do to kill their time or sometimes just out of their shallow personalities.  Judging! Yes, judging other people, passing on judgements. That's the most convenient thing to do, for some people. Eh, to be precise for shallow people.

Feeling strange, yet? Well don't be. I know it's sad but it's true right? Judgements are the only thing that people pass on so easily. Like it's something worth sharing. But what they don't understand is who on earth gave them even the slightest of rights to judge someone else for their doings? Like, seriously who? The question is who are you to judge the life, or the choices someone else lives by? Some people  might not be perfect, and they might actually not live to be. So who are you to judge anyway? Also, before pointing fingers on others do they even make sure that their hands are clean?
Well I'm sure, they don't. Because that's not an easy thing to do but passing judgements certainly is. Judgements and criticism, they always come from a place of fear. Those who judge they have something that they fear, they just use it as a shield.

So if you're being judged, that's fine. Let them judge you or criticize you for who they think you're are. Not everyone anyway deserves to unveil the real you. Let them misunderstand, gossip about you. Let them do it all, say whatever they want. Their opinions are not your problem to solve, or not even something to pay attention to. So no matter what never doubt the beauty of your truth, the essence of your true self. Just keep shining like you do come what may!